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Doubts and Questions (Homosexuality)

Michael says:

During a few months, I was having feelings for my neighbour who went with me to the same high school. I always managed to take the same bus with him just to see him a couple of minutes. Was I really desiring to be with him or was it only the feeling that I didn't want to be alone? The more I thought about it, the worse I felt. Therefore, I thought there would be a simple solution: to go out with a girl. Deep inside I knew that it would be very hard to forget about my neighbour and that I could never be in love with a girl, despite the wish of my parents. It was then that I became sincere with myself and I accepted the fact that I was gay.

Raoul says:

At the beginning of my adolescence, I felt only attracted to females. With time, I discovered that I had a secret attraction for a classmate. I had the feeling that I had to define myself, was I homosexual or heterosexual? Could I be both? Today, I found out that I can.

Marco says:

When I noticed that I was attracted to men, I started to ask myself a lot of questions. I thought it would be something temporary but shortly after I realized that it wasn't. I grew up and bit by bit my doubts disappeared.

Isabel says:

I was afraid of being a lesbian, it meant that I had to rebuild my whole life with a new perspective. I did see that women had to struggle in this macho society.

Tony says:

I was terrified by the fact that someone could find out that I was gay. I became paranoid!

John says:

It was too hard for me to be alone, I decided to attend a group of young gay and lesbian people. By then, I could see that I wasn't alone and that there were many young people that had the same questions as me.

Monica says:

You should always choose a person that you can confide in when you decide to tell someone. I don't believe you can just tell anyone. I told a friend of mine with whom I had a lot of confidence, she accepted it very well and she told me that she did think about it. She helped me and never turned her back on me, true friends never will.
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